Being in a relationship with a Taurus is being involved in a lot of contradictions.
They’re laid-back and easy-going, but they also work incredibly hard. They’re patient and don’t take things personally, yet they’ll argue with you about anything.
Loving a Taurus woman isn’t always easy, and here, you’ll find out exactly why, but difficulties or not, loving a Taurus woman is always worth it. Let’s get started with brutal truths about loving a Taurus woman.
#1. They’re unbelievably stubborn.
Yes, Taurus are stubborn, that’s a fairly obvious truth, but if you think knowing this will prepare you for experiencing it first-hand, you’re woefully unprepared for loving a Taurus woman.
They’ll take parts; they’ll hold ridiculous yet strong beliefs; they’ll pick up causes to defend like they’re going out of style, and they’ll die on every hill they cross.
No argument is too little or too petty for a Taurus woman, a type of lady born with the impressive ability to argue and breathe at the same time.
No, taking their side unconditionally won’t help you either. For starters, it’s a mistake to always change something about you just to satisfy your partners- and it’s also something Taurus women will argue about.
To put it plainly, if you’re thinking about getting involved with a Taurus woman, you need to learn not only how to argue but also how to enjoy it.
That’s right, you’re going to be arguing a lot about almost anything, but for the most part, they’ll be fun arguments about silly things that will make you laugh when you look back at them.
For the most part.
To err in the side of caution, though, don’t try to change a Taurus mind. If you’re involved in an argument with a Taurus woman, enjoy it, but try not to take personally.
They’ll take their beliefs to the grave, no matter if they’re wrong, and it’s easier to agree to disagree than try to convince them to see things from your perspective.
If it sounds exhausting, it’s because it can be, but it can also be a lot of fun, particularly because these arguments will help you gain a new perspective on the subject at hand.
#2. They’re a jealous bunch.
This is true for both Taurus men and women, but we’ll focus on women in this one.
Taurus aren’t particularly insecure, but they do crave attention. Not in the ‘life of the party,’ sort of way, but rather validation from the people they love.
Taurus women need to know they’re loved and valued, and if they don’t feel like you love them enough, that is where the insecurity pops up.
(Let’s face it, though, that applies to all of us. Who doesn’t love being loved and valued?)
A Taurus woman that knows herself appreciated, loved, and valued is a woman who’ll be mostly comfortable with their partners interacting with members of the opposite sex; mostly, because they certainly don’t take a hands-free approach to relationships.
A Taurus woman who doesn’t feel loved and appreciated will often blame other women for their partner’s shortcomings, and as we’ve mentioned before, changing their mind is near impossible.
The solution is simple: Make it clear to your Taurus lady that she’s the most important woman in your life and demonstrate it. Actions are worth much more than words, and if you want your Taurus girlfriend to be okay with your female friends, you want to act in a way that makes it clear who’s the woman for you.
Boost their confidence by showing just how much you love them!
#3. They’re walking volcanoes.
Taurus women are one of the most patient signs in the zodiac. Most things roll right off their backs, and they can’t be bothered by things they’ve decided not to care about.
This has given the sign a reputation as one of the most mellow and easy-going signs out there, and it’s a reputation well earned. However, even the most patient of individuals has a breaking point.
Taurus women’s anger is a thing that takes a while to build. It might take hours, it might take months, it might even take years, but once they reach their breaking point, they’ll explode, and they’ll do it spectacularly.
Friendships, relationships, and even families can be destroyed by a Taurus anger when it finally ignites, so you should never take their tolerance for granted.
Luckily, you don’t have to walk around on eggshells to avoid a Taurus’ anger; all you need to do is stop assuming and check on them every now and then.
Just because a Taurus woman doesn’t seem angry about something, it doesn’t mean she’s not annoyed, so make sure to ask her how she’s feeling and don’t just assume everything is peachy because she hasn’t gotten mad yet.
If you’re doing something you know you shouldn’t be doing and she doesn’t react angrily, it’s not because you have the world’s coolest girlfriend, it’s because she’s giving you the chance to stop doing it before all hell breaks loose.
#4. They don’t need you.
It sounds ugly, but it needs to be said. A Taurus woman doesn’t need to be in a relationship. They want to be in a relationship, and those are entirely different things.
If you’re in a relationship with a Taurus woman, congratulations; she has decided she wants to spend her time and energy on you.
She’s with you because she wants to be with you, not because she needs you in her life, which means she’ll choose to do a lot of things on her own, and won’t ask for your help unless she genuinely can’t do things on her own.
Some people like to feel needed. Some people treasure being able to help their partners with big and small things, and while some signs are more than happy to receive unsolicited help and advice, as they see those acts as acts of love, Taurus women are more likely to see them as invasions.
In their minds, you’re not helping them because you love them. You’re helping them because you think they can’t do things themselves.
It’s like that.
Remember, if a Taurus woman chooses to love you, it is because they want to share their life with you, but that doesn’t mean they’re willing to surrender their independence.
So, don’t get upset when it seems like you can walk out of her life, and very little would change.
That might very well be the truth, but that doesn’t mean she wouldn’t notice the difference.
#5. They’re as loyal as they come.
If you’re lucky enough to be loved by a Taurus woman, congratulations; you’ve earned yourself one of the most loyal partners you can imagine.
Here you have a fierce and independent woman who wants you in your life, who’s not afraid of fighting for the people she loves, and who won’t back down from a challenge even if it’s the smartest thing to do.
You have a patient woman who treasures your opinion, who wants to be by your side and who won’t balk at difficult situations provided you show the same steadfastness and loyalty.
Yes, Taurus women are stubborn, independent, possessive, and maybe a bit scary at times, but that intensity is how she shows her love. That love, properly nurtured, can lead to one of the most robust relationships you’ve ever had.